Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Online Dating?

I'm thinking about signing up for an online dating site.

This isn't something that I have ever done before, and I am not really sure how I feel about it.

My ex and I broke up about six months ago, actually a little bit more than six months ago. And I am not too sure what happens now.

I have basically only had two boyfriends in my life (unless you count high school, and then we can add a couple more..). I went out with one guy for almost four years, all through university. We lived together for about a year and a half. There was a four month break between when I broke up with him, and when I started dating my ex-fiance. I went on a few dates between the two of them, but not many (and back then the term "date" sometimes meant "get drunk and go home with" "party with").

My university boyfriend and I met when we were both living in residence. We went out a few times with groups of people and eventually became a couple. My ex-fiance showed up in my office one day when I was working at a gym (he was a member) and asked me out. He had seen me around, and thought I was cute.

So, basically, I have no idea how to meet someone to date.

I think I might have to try the online thing.

I am not looking for anything serious right now, I will hopefully be moving in the next six months to go to law school, and am not interested in a long distance relationship. But I would like someone to have sex with on a regular basis spend some time with and snuggle up and watch movies with.

What are your thoughts? Have you done the online thing? How did it work for you?

2 comments:

  1. I've tried the whole internet dating thing, as I realised that I'd been in a relationship my whole adult life, and had absolutely NO IDEA how to meet guys!

    I did have a bit of a fling over christmas, but generally most of the guys I've been chatting too are either boring, unattractive or have serious hang ups about relationships.

    Give it a go - it does work for some people, but make sure you are completely ready.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Thanks! I created a profile last night and posted it... I would be up for a fling right about now :)

    ReplyDelete